Sunny Hostin

Is The Nanny Power-Washing My Kid?

CNN | April 11, 2008 - Is my nanny power-washing my kid?  I have to admit, that is all I thought about when I first saw the video and reported on the story of Nikki Ramirez..

She's the mother who was videotaped in February while spraying her 2½-year-old daughter with a high-pressure water hose at an Orlando, Florida, car wash.

My thoughts went something like this:

So I decided that I would order a nanny cam.

Surprisingly, when I Googled "nanny cam," over a dozen sites popped up. I could order a nanny cam that is hidden in a teddy bear. I could order a nanny cam the size of a pen light. I could even order a nanny cam that would feed me video, with audio, to my office computer, in real time.

Yes, I liked that one. I could see what was going on in my home, miles away, at the same time it was happening. But the nagging question in my mind (and in the minds of so many other moms and dads around the country) was "Is this legal?"

The short answer is a resounding yes. It is legal in all 50 states to use a hidden camera. So do I press click (and should you as well) and order the fancy camera with real-time audio?

Not so fast. In many states it is illegal to record speech without a person's consent. So if my nanny is verbally abusive, I may be breaking the law if I tape her ranting without her consent.

But, lucky me. I live in New York, a one party consent state. Bottom line -- I can record my nanny's speech without breaking the law. My friend in neighboring Connecticut is not so lucky.

So now that I know that I can buy the fancy nanny cam and obsess daily and listen and watch her every move, I had to figure out where to put it.

Now I had other questions as well, such as can I put a camera in her bedroom, where she sometimes brings the baby; what about in the bathroom, where she sometimes bathes the baby; can I hide it; do I have to tell her; and what do I do if I see something really bad -- can I turn it over to the police and will it be admissible evidence?

The short answer? There is no short answer.

Experts and courts are split as to whether you should use a nanny cam without telling your nanny. They are likewise split as to where you can place the nanny cam. Most agree that her bedroom and bathroom are off limits. But many believe that mom and dad can put a camera anywhere they please.

Likewise, most advise that the safest thing to do is to put it in plain view and just fess up to your nanny that you have a nanny cam. Others say, no need to tell your nanny; it's your house. And what about using it at trial?

Muro was arrested and jailed after police viewed hidden camera video recordings that appeared to show her shaking a 5-month-old baby in her care.

However, prosecutors in Florida dropped the case against her when experts concluded that the footage was not reliable as evidence because the video was "time-lapsed" meaning that the shaking appearing on the video may not have been shaking at all. In fact, the baby was examined and found to be perfectly healthy.

So the question remains: to spy or not to spy?

Back to top ↑